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My work is rooted in Holistic Sexuality Education, a transformative practice that integrates the physical, emotional, intellectual, social, spiritual, and ecological dimensions of sexuality. I approach mind-body connection as a gateway to deeper self-awareness and collective liberation—inviting multiple levels of consciousness into every learning and healing encounter.
Currently, I serve as a Neurobehavioral Trauma Specialist and an Interdisciplinary Research Scientist, bridging neuroscience, cultural trauma, sexology, and ethnographic inquiry to challenge dominant narratives around sex, gender, and power. Through platforms like Pillow Talk With Nixi, I facilitate decolonial, trauma-informed spaces that include community education, sexuality research, and culturally-rooted healing.
I curate and lead initiatives like the Sex Scholars Library, the InclusiSex Studies Initiative, and Soul Sync Sanctuary, each one designed to support BIPOC voices, dismantle erotophobia, and explore the politics of desire, shame, and pleasure. My activism also takes the form of curriculum-building for South Asian sex educators, kink inclusion work through BRITE, and hosting story-driven spaces like Sexual Revolution: Redefining Narratives One Chapter at a Time.
I recognize that my lived experiences, privileges, and social positioning shape my lens. I remain committed to unlearning, reorienting, and being held accountable—by you, my community, and the evolving work I do. If my past ever intersects with my praxis in a way that feels harmful, I invite you to name it. This is a space of co-created integrity.
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MY IDENTITIES & BACKGROUND
Identities: I am a cis-gendered, heterosexual, androphilic Indian woman and a sexual assault survivor with over a decade of experience as a BIPOC sex educator and a trauma-informed therapy provider.
Neurodivergent: ADHD, Anxiety, Depression, cPTSD, HSP, Sleep Apnea and Eosinophilic Esophagitis
Background: Neuroscience, Behavioral Sciences, Anthropology, Genetics, Holistic Sexuality Education, Reiki
Research Style: Anthropology, Social Neuroscience, Linguistic Studies, Biopolitics and Cross-cultural Psychology
Research Interests:
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Challenging Orientalism and Sexualization of Bellydance
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Choreographing Erasure: Reinvention of SWer Dance and Identity Development
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Linguistic Substitution and Pedagogical Lineage in the Lyrical Carnatic Tradition
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Ethnoarchaelogical shifts in Perceptions of Female Sexuality & Aging in Medieval England & India
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Gendered Perceptions of Color & its Representations within BIPOC communities
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Neurobiology of trauma and Epigenetics
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Neurodevelopment of human sexual and social behaviors like mate selection, mating styles, and fetish development
