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InclusiSex Studies Initiative

This educational initiative provides courses ranging from

  • Human Sexuality

  • Anthropology

  • Neuroscience

  • Behavioral Sciences

  • Psychology

  • Sacred Sexuality

  • Sex Worker History

  • Linguistics

  • Political Sciences

  • Biopolitics

Plant Shadow

WELCOME

My work is rooted in Holistic Sexuality Education, a transformative practice that integrates the physical, emotional, intellectual, social, spiritual, and ecological dimensions of sexuality. I approach mind-body connection as a gateway to deeper self-awareness and collective liberation—inviting multiple levels of consciousness into every learning and healing encounter.

Currently, I serve as a Neurobehavioral Trauma Specialist and an Interdisciplinary Research Scientist, bridging neuroscience, cultural trauma, sexology, and ethnographic inquiry to challenge dominant narratives around sex, gender, and power. Through platforms like Pillow Talk With Nixi, I facilitate decolonial, trauma-informed spaces that include community education, sexuality research, and culturally-rooted healing.

I curate and lead initiatives like the Sex Scholars Library, the InclusiSex Studies Initiative, and Soul Sync Sanctuary, each one designed to support BIPOC voices, dismantle erotophobia, and explore the politics of desire, shame, and pleasure. My activism also takes the form of curriculum-building for South Asian sex educators, kink inclusion work through BRITE, and hosting story-driven spaces like Sexual Revolution: Redefining Narratives One Chapter at a Time.

I recognize that my lived experiences, privileges, and social positioning shape my lens. I remain committed to unlearning, reorienting, and being held accountable—by you, my community, and the evolving work I do. If my past ever intersects with my praxis in a way that feels harmful, I invite you to name it. This is a space of co-created integrity.

PEER-REVIEWED RESEARCH FEATURED ON

Sex Ed Lecture Series
SLAM Conference
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Kink Between The Lines Conference
Sex Positive World
AASECT Conference
SSSS
Kinsey Institute Conference
Lets Talk About Sex Conference
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DEGREES & CERTIFICATES

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MY IDENTITIES & BACKGROUND

Identities: I am a cis-gendered, heterosexual, androphilic Indian woman and a sexual assault survivor with over a decade of experience as a BIPOC sex educator and a trauma-informed therapy provider.

Neurodivergent: ADHD, Anxiety, Depression, cPTSD, HSP, Sleep Apnea and Eosinophilic Esophagitis

Background: Neuroscience, Behavioral Sciences, Anthropology, Genetics, Holistic Sexuality Education, Reiki

Research Style: Anthropology, Social Neuroscience, Linguistic Studies, Biopolitics and Cross-cultural Psychology

Research Interests:

  • Challenging Orientalism and Sexualization of Bellydance

  • Choreographing Erasure: Reinvention of SWer Dance and Identity Development

  • Linguistic Substitution and Pedagogical Lineage in the Lyrical Carnatic Tradition

  • Ethnoarchaelogical shifts in Perceptions of Female Sexuality & Aging in Medieval England & India

  • Gendered Perceptions of Color & its Representations within BIPOC communities

  • Neurobiology of trauma and Epigenetics

  • Neurodevelopment of human sexual and social behaviors like mate selection, mating styles, and fetish development

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Alliances & Affiliations

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SEX NEWS

WHITE HOUSE HAS DECLARED WE ARE ALL FEMALES?

Trump's administration released an Executive Order to define certain terminologies such as "Female" & "Male". However, it has backfired as the definition is contradictory to 10th grade biology as we know it. According to this new definition, who are we in the Binary system?

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